The station lands and the tab stays open until you close it. These questions do the closing. Run the one that fits the account on your desk — the text you have drafted four times, the contract with the friendly number, the friendship you keep overpaying for.
Before you send the text, ask: what is the actual request? Not the context, not the history, not the paragraph explaining why you have been quiet. Venus sextile Mars in Leo rewards a direct ask with a spine. "I want to split this evenly from now on" beats three hundred words of preamble. If you cannot name the ask in one sentence, the text is still research, not a decision.
Before you sign the deal, ask: which term did I accept to avoid an awkward conversation? That is the figure Venus retrograde exposed and the station invites you to revise. A salary, a deadline, a deposit, a favour promised for later. Saturn in Aries keeps a plainer question in view — what will you no longer pay for, in money, time, or care? Get the revision in writing. Venus in Libra wants the corrected terms on the page, not in a verbal understanding.
Before you let it go, ask: am I closing this, or am I just tired of the ambiguity? The two are not the same. Closure with a documented ending suits the Mars–Jupiter sextile. Closure through silent disappearance leaves the ledger open, and you will be arguing with this degree in your head next month.
Then ask the hardest one: what would a fair exchange look like if I stopped protecting the other person's feelings and started stating mine? Venus does not want a winner and a loser. It wants a balance both people can actually live with.
Pick your date inside the window. November 14 carries the station itself. The days after, while Venus holds the sextiles to Mars and Jupiter, suit the conversation that needs momentum. Mercury is direct from November 13, so the message and the revision can move in the same week without the retrograde static.
Finish with the one-sentence verdict. Reconciled, closed, or repriced. Say it out loud, write it down, and stop reopening the tab. Venus handed you the pen at the degree where the review began — the page has been waiting since October 3.