You now have four things to check: Libra placements, Venus's sign, house and condition, the 7th-house cusp and ruler, and hard Moon aspects. Read them together, in that order, then stop. No single one of them is a verdict.
Houses and angles need a real birth time. Without one, a working noon approximation can place planets, but not the 7th-house cusp — and the ruler depends on the cusp. If the Moon changed signs that day, check the moon sign calculator before trusting the Moon layer. The rising sign calculator handles the Ascendant in the same way.
Save your chart once. Then every question you bring to it — a disagreement, a pattern you keep repeating, a bond you are unsure about — starts from the same calculated base instead of a fresh guess. A saved chart is what makes this a personal reading instead of a sign stereotype.
For timing, the transit chart calculator compares transiting planets with your saved birth chart at a chosen date. Enter your birth details and the date, and it shows which planets contact which points. Each contact is a place where current sky activity touches a specific part of your chart — the Venus or 7th-house ruler you just identified, a Moon degree, a Libra planet.
One honest limit: the free tool shows you the geometry. It does not measure how kind you are, whether a relationship will last, or what someone else feels. Your chart describes the machinery of your weighing, not the outcome of your choices.
Here is the final payoff, closing the loop from the start. Libra was never the problem. Neither is Venus, your 7th-house ruler, or a hard Moon. The reflex is real, and it is readable in the chart — which means it is also workable. Name the input you keep leaving off the scale, then put it back on.