Check out this guide to knowing how to tell if your Taurus man is hurt and howto deal with it.
When it comes to the Taurus Man, he definitely isn’t the type to wear his heart on his sleeve or verbally express his emotions unless you have been a trusted member of his circle for some time. This stoic nature is exactly why it can be hard to know when the Taurus Man is happy, angry, or hurt. He won’t be expressing his feelings through spoken words but the little actions he’ll do will be enough to let you know he’s hurting when something has upset him.
1. He is quiet
#1 is the biggest sign he is hurt.
If the Taurus Man has been in your life for quite some time and you both have shared numerous discussions on a wide variety of topics from the lighthearted to the in-dept, then he definitely has placed some solid trust in your relationship and connection. But all of a sudden, he goes completely silent on you, he doesn’t respond to messages (regardless if you text, email, or call), and he doesn’t seem to want to engage in any dialogue. This is how he acts when hurt but is also in love.
The reason might not even be related to your relationship as the Taurus Man is known for retreating inside his shell when he is working through something but at the same time, he isn’t the type to take it out on those around him unless they are involved in some way.
2. He is acting cold
The Taurus guy never comes across as warm and open to someone that they don’t know but he definitely doesn’t exhibit these behaviors around those that are in his circle. This means that if the Taurus Man is suddenly acting cold and distant with you – he is not impressed with something you said or done.
The thing to look at, however, is whether or not he has completely removed himself from your life. If he doesn’t respond to anything you send, you can’t get him to have an actual conversation with you, or something similar – then he is beyond hurt and he is done with your relationship. If he is responding, just colder than before (and quieter – see #1) – then he is hurt.
3. He is spending less time with you
During those occasions during which it is hard to get the Taurus Man to spend time with you; you really have to ask yourself if there was anything that was said (or done) that could have been taken the wrong way by him and now he is hurt to the point that the thought of spending time with you doesn’t make him happy.
The Taurus is the type to avoid conflict when he can and by any means possible, and this includes removing himself from the company of those that have hurt him. So when the Taurus Man stops seeking out your company and doesn’t respond to any messages to confirm a hangout; he is definitely hurt about something that you said or done (even if it wasn’t intentional at all).
